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Ketvirtadienio vaizdelis: Rebecca Drysdale "It Gets Better"

She is brilliant, smart and funny, kind and talented — but hey --
It doesn’t matter what she is cause all she is to them is gay.

It Gets Better Project

Atsiliepimai:
Why I don’t like Dan Savage’s “It Gets Better” project as a response to bullying
Does It Really Get Better?: A Conscientious Critique
Where Is The Proof That It Gets Better? Queer POC and the Solidarity Gap

Dainos tekstas:
Amanda is in gym class where the kids go to get fit,
But her eye’s not on the ball at all — it’s on Ms. Foster’s tits.
She’s got a dirty little secret (“shhh”) that everybody knows.
She came out, but she wishes she had left the closet closed.

And here is little Davey hiding in the piano room,
Playing Wicked, Rent, Chicago, Cats and Brigadoon.
He’s hiding from the locker room and jocks who roam the halls,
Where he’s safe from wedgies, shiners and destruction of his balls…

But when they call you weirdos, fags, and rejects, flamers, gays and hags,
Baby dykes and homotikes, Lesbos, homos, and queer bags,
It might seem like it’s hopeless and will never be ok,
But listen to the ones who care — believe them when they say:

IT GETS BETTER

One day you’ll look back and you won’t give a fuck
When your swimming through your pussy vault like Scrooge Fucking McDuck.
And when you’re snatching your first Grammy — super glammy lookin’ slick --
It won’t be much time till they get in line for a chance to suck your dick.

IT GETS BETTER

It wasn’t long till they told Johnny that he wasn’t normal
When he wore a strapless gown and high heels to his junior formal.
But the cool guys they felt passionately that his chosen fashion
Was a rationalization for a rash of Johnny bashin’.

Everyone made fun of Shannon cause she kissed a girl.
So she hid her head and closed her mouth and shut out all the world.
She is brilliant, smart and funny, kind and talented — but hey --
It doesn’t matter what she is cause all she is to them is gay.

But when they call you carpet munchers, fudge packers, and queens,
Lesbians in training, Marys, Nelly, Nancy teens,
It might seem like you’re different, weird, unusual or strange,
But hang in there cause things have always and will always change.

IT GETS BETTER

Jon’s a stylist and he’s gotten pretty far.
Now he doesn’t get his ass kicked but his ass kissed by the stars.
And when Shannon got to college she met people just like her,
And she realized who the d-bags and the fuckheads really were.

IT GETS BETTER

Jane Lynch, Boy George, Versace,
Adam Lambert, Liberace,
Elton, Tim Gunn, Michael Stype,
Ellen, Rosie, Wanda Sykes.

Jodie Foster, Linda Perry
Gandalf the Wizard? — actually a fairy.
Simon Amstell, K.D. Lang.
Even Brando like some wang.

Rachel Maddow (huge muff diver),
Richard Hatch who won Survivor,
Nathan Lane, Truman Capote,
Even Obiwan Kenobi.

Billy Joe from Greenday’s bi,
Ricky Martin — big surprise!
Doogie Howser — what a showman.
Dave Hyde Pierce and all the Romans.

Tommy Tune and Alvin Ailey,
Meredith Baxter, Leisha Hailey.
Lohan, Paquin both are bi.
Boy George and George Takei.

Cher has a transgendered child.
George Michael and Oscar Wild,
Everyone involved in Glee,
One-tenth of everyone you know — and me!

All of them were just like you.
It got better for them, and it will for you too.

IT GETS BETTER

If you’re gay or bi or something in between,
There’s no one who is meaner than a bunch of asshole teens.
Those assholes are the first people that you will soon forget
When you’re living life and learning how much better it can get….

IT GETS BETTER

Comments (2)

Šviesa:

Esi užtyčiotas gėjus mokykloje, bet kai tik gauni atestatą, magiškai persikeli į paralelią visatą, kur visi tavo kankintojai neegzistuoja, homofobija visiškai eliminuota iš bet kokio gyvenimiško aspekto: darbo, gatvės, šeimos, artimųjų rato, žodžiu - tolerancijos rojus. Taip, kur gi ne... Visos problemos išsisprendžia vos pabaigus mokyklą.

Pagrindinė visos kampanijos mintis - tvarkoj, reik teikti pagalbą užbullintiems paaugliams, reikia juos morališkai paremti, reikia juos paguosti, kad problemos mokykloje - dar ne pasaulio pabaiga. Bet ne tokiu būdu! Nereikia atviru tekstu mokyti LGBT jaunimą nekęsti heteroseksualios daugumas ir guosti mintimi, jog jie vieną dieną stovės eilėj, kad tau "pačiulptų", nes tiesiog neišvengiamai būsi garsus ir turtingas. Tai tik dar labiau supriešina jaunimą į dvi stovyklas. Puolis, kontrpuolimas, kas tada? O gi dar vienas dar piktesnis puolimas...

Taigi ne simptomą reikia mėginti paveikti ir nedėti visų vilčių į aukas. Reikia imtis priemonių prieš bullintojus, nepakęsti tokio elgesio, išrauti jį su šaknimis. Tokios programos kaip ši, turėtų eiti tik šalia, koja kojon su efektyviu pačių patyčių naikinimu, o ne atskirai. Kolkas nesu perdaug įsigilinusi į tai, kas vyksta Amerikoje prieš patyčias, kaip su tuo kovojama, ar šios priemonės suderintos. Galbūt aš neteisi, nes kažko nežinau. Bet net ir tokiu atveju tikrai negalima mokyti paauglių neapykantos ir šlykštaus žodyno. O gal dar kažką pramiegojau ir JAV tokie žodžiai kaip fuck jau visai nebekeiksmai? Jeigu kaip kokiu "amen" nepagardinsi lyrics'ų - daina praras įtaigumą?

Ir dar kai kas galėtų nusiimti rožinius akinius. Sutinku su didžiąja dalimi kritikos - programa orientuota į privilegijuotus paauglius. Be to - homofobiškai nusiteikę būna ne tik bendraamžiai, bet ir tėvai, kiti giminės, mokytojai, įstaigų darbuotojai, politikai ir t.t...

ayja:

Kas? kur? kaip? Kokiu būdu ten moka nekęsti heteroseksualus? Toje dainoje sakoma kaip tik priešingai, kad reikia atkreipti dėmesį ne tik į gay, bet ir į visus vaikus.

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